They tended to not have a problem asking women out in general, they felt it was a potential minefield to ask black women out specifically.
Reader David left a comment which I’m excerpting here: There are millions of white guys with white families that somehow managed to ask their wives out on a date, and it continued from there. I think shrugging this result off to your opinion that white guys have trouble asking any woman out just doesn’t stand up to scrutiny.
Unlike other apps where you swipe through lots of people, this app sends you one “bagel” it thinks you might like each day at noon.
These bagel boys (or women) are based not just on your own stated preferences, but on an algorithm of what it thinks you will like, and is more likely to recommend friends-of-friends from your Facebook.
" The actress expresses excitement to be a part of the show, which features one of the most diverse—and populous—casts currently on the air. This is the most amazing group of women that I've had the privilege of surrounding myself with.
Salkin also freelances and is well known matchmaker in the Orthodox Jewish Community.
I also felt somewhat protective of those who may be in vulnerable state asking for help with dating white men even if the person offering advice is a white male because there are so many folks lining up to take advantage. I had to at least read his responses first, but as always because black women must not engage in unreciprical relationships and we have many examples of how that imbalance leaves us at a disadvantage, I would still want to make sure we’re not letting other people control or benefit from our conversations.
Anyway, I liked his responses though I didn’t agree with his assessment that white men don’t approach women for dates.
within their homes and communities there seems to be extra confusion, questions and angst about potential couplings with WHITE MEN. At the Dating While Brown site, Interracial Dating Coach Jeremy Nelson was taking reader questions from black women concerned about the mating dance between black women and white men.
It’s like the Wham song Initially, I questioned the long-term usefulness of women taking advice from men because of the way black women tend to flock to projects appropriated by black males full of bad advice who are questionable characters to begin with.