Does anyone have any advice for me because I am tired of being single and being a virgin...
Actually in the exact same position as you: 19 years old, in college, never had a girlfriend.
And even though my friends and the media, including Ryan Seacrest, have referred to him as my boyfriend. But what type of Non-BF they are can vary in a wide spectrum.
My dad walked out on my mom when I was 7 and I've hardly seen him since and I think that's probably been a factor in some of my romantic difficulties, since I don't think I want to open myself up to that kind of hurt again. Other times, I can go a week or so without doing it. I guess I figured doing it would just make me feel worse about not having a girlfriend. I've stopped looking for that as I've gotten older though because I know it's not realistic.All of my guy friends either have girlfriends right now, sex buddies, or random girls they find at parties to hook up with while I have no sexual or dating experience at all.I have friends who are girls and I put myself out there (its not like I am completely shy and nervous around girls) and I don't think I act desperate around girls who I think are attractive.Man C: I didn't set out to be a 27-year-old virgin, but it just kind of happened. I looked at pornographic pictures when I was 12 and got caught and never really had an urge to go back to it.I've always been fairly shy when it comes to approaching women, and I tend to be very suspicious if someone expresses romantic interest in me. Masturbation is probably three to four times a week. Sometimes my sex drive is higher than at other times. I would say I've dated five girls, and three of them turned into serious girlfriends and relationships.You don’t have to let the world know what type of Non-BF your current Non-BF is.